The Sufi poet, Rumi, said, “Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”
Real love… we strive for it, we yearn for it. But the truth is that WE are love. We may not feel it because of false messages we may have gotten as we grew up. These messages created false beliefs about ourselves, others and maybe life itself. Our thoughts influence our actions and what we attract in life. When we begin to heal and change those false beliefs, we peel back layers of limitations that have kept us from feeling happiness and the love that we truly are. Jesus said, Love your neighbor as yourself. No matter what messages we may have heard as a child, we can discover and strive to unravel any negative thoughts or beliefs about ourselves that keep us from loving and celebrating the unique expression we are in the world.
When we know that we are the essence of love itself and fully realize it within, we become love magnets with a high vibration together with focus and desire that attracts all our good including true spiritual love with another human being, a spiritual partner.